This is an update I've been wanting to write for a while as a direct follow up to "A trans man's guide to dating straight women (part 2)" (In order for this story to totally make sense, I'd recommend reading this also.) [...]
My best friend was abroad when I told her I was transgender. I wanted to watch her face, to see if it would reflect the same doubts and fears that I still had myself. But all I had were those [...]
Seventeen days ago, I had top surgery and a LOT has happened since. Besides being frustrated with the fact that I still cannot exercise and that my mom had to wash my hair a couple of times, I have been [...]
“Package here for you,” said the clerk at the student mail center. “Sorry it took a while. We’ve had some delayed mail.” Little did she know the hidden truth to her comment. After two decades of delayed “male,” my package had finally [...]
Let me share with you, my cocktail party icebreaker. When that inevitable question of “what do you do?” comes up, I like to respond with “I have a company called Transthetics” and then let them guess what they think this [...]
“Have fun!” Her words were sincere, but boy, did they strike up a whole new level of anxiety within me in that moment. Because I was on my way to the men’s room of a hotel, armed with my shiny [...]
So a while ago I wrote an article on dating straight women as a trans man and have been thinking, there's a few things I'd really like to add to this. I still 100% stand by everything I wrote and [...]
I'm pretty consistently an ENFP on the Myers Briggs scale, so apparently quite an extrovert. But my bladder, I must confess, is not. Sure, in the privacy of my own home, the little guy is pretty relaxed, but out in [...]
The very earliest memories I have are of running around with my brother in the backyard, both in our shorts, playing in the dirt as little brothers do. Those are such happy memories. But it didn't take long before the [...]
Just like Pinocchio, all I ever wanted, was to be a real boy. To have a fairy godmother wave her magic wand and make it the way it was always supposed to be... but isn't... For years I struggled with [...]
